A Guide to Earnest Teacher Self-Care in the 21st Century

teacher self-care

Sharing is caring!

We are in a weird time in education. Not only are the pressures on the profession at an all-time high, but teachers by nature put their heart and soul into their work 24/7 while the school year is in session (and a lot of it often carries over when the year is not in session as well).  Teacher burnout rates are high and teacher self-care has never been more important.

The teacher burnout signs are there, but way too often educators overlook the basic things they can do to accomplish effective teacher self-care and aid in teacher burnout prevention.

I remember learning in one of my first years of teaching that the stress level of an educator is second only to that of an air traffic controller. While that statistic has changed over the years, the job of a teacher is still consistently in the top 5 of the most stressful jobs. 

This is becoming universal in school systems around the world.

People who are not in education (especially if they don’t have young children) often roll their eyes at this. How hard can it be, right? Unfortunately, this mentality is often filtered into our classrooms where teachers are stressed out and support for teacher self-care is intermittent at best.

As teachers, we give, give, give, and often the return we see in those little moments make it all worthwhile; other times, burning the candle at both ends leads to teacher burnout…and when a teacher burns out, no good comes from it in the classroom.

(This post may contain affiliate links that won’t change your price but will share some commission. As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. Please read our disclosure policy for more information.)

Fortunately, we have built-in breaks to give us time to recharge. So many people don’t understand (or appreciate) that teaching is a 24/7 job for 10 months of the year. We are educators, life coaches, substitute parents, mentors…the list goes on and on.

We are not just teaching our curriculum, but life lessons and soft skills like collaboration and critical thinking. The role of the teacher has expanded to include training that used to be learned in the home and all eyes are on us when a student is not performing where the set standard says they should be (nevermind any of the mishmashes that could be happening outside of the walls of our schools; those elements are certainly not taken into consideration as often as they should be).

So yes, as a teacher, you EARN your time off and it is 110% necessary to prevent teacher burnout. Teacher self-care has never been more relevant as it is in this day-in-age.

The counterargument is that we are living in a stressful time and every job is harder than it used to be. While this may be true, some of the statistics are staggering. According to a study by the University of Missouri, 93% of elementary school teachers report experiencing a consistently high level of stress.

That means only 7% of the teachers surveyed said they had either lower levels of stress or had coping skills that correlated with the stress level that they were undertaking on a daily basis.

In the summarizing article by Tim Walker states, when teachers are given coping skills to help counteract stressful situations, they are incredibly open to the techniques that may help them. One of the researchers of the study, Keith Herman, is often shocked at the number of teachers who are unaware of techniques that he finds to be extremely basic in regards to reacting to stressful situations.

By increasing the self-care tools in the teacher toolbox, it can be said that the statistics of not necessarily the high level of stress, but the appropriate coping skills for those stressful situations could be improved. This is not an isolated study. A quick Google search has multiple that pop right up and all state the same thing:  teachers are stressed out and the teacher burnout rate is high.

Herman and his counterpart of the study Wendy Reinke wrote a book titled, Stress Management for Teachers: A Proactive Guide (ad) to help teachers develop very real, tangible strategies to help in their day-to-day when it comes to a stressful situation. The best part is the focus on teachers, as we do have a different role than so many other professions.

There are a lot of books and techniques out there, but when you come across one that is beneficial for a teacher, it is the epitome of a game-changer.

Book Stress Management for Teachers: A Proactive Guide

We know that teaching is stressful and so much of the overall climate must change for that pendulum to start swinging back to a middle ground. The fact of the matter is, though, that so many teachers trudge on and push forward without taking the time to ground themselves while they are in the thick of everything. I am also guilty of this. We push towards the next break, knowing we can just relax then.

Are we truly being the best versions of ourselves (both inside AND outside of the classroom) if we are only taking care of ourselves on the breaks? We know that weekends are often shot as we catch up with the week that has passed and prepare for the week ahead, so it seems like those extended days off are our only chances.

Why do we have this mentality? Shouldn’t teacher self-care be at the top of the list for each of us to prevent burnout? Or do we not recognize this until it is too late?

Jennifer Gonzalez has a fantastic article titled: Why It’s So Hard for Teachers to Take Care of Themselves. She states much of what we already know (it’s part of the job, we are in demand 24/7, etc.) but she has a really fantastic analogy she uses with the help of Angela Watson.

We know that if an airplane is going down, we put our own oxygen masks on first before we help others. Why aren’t we doing this in our day-to-day lives as teachers??

So, what can be done in regards to teacher self-care in preventing burnout?

As teachers, we are yes-men.

We so often take on more than any person should because we feel compelled to. It can range from reasons from feeling sympathetic to a particular situation right up to being “voluntold” by administration.

It is not a sustainable system. We cannot “live for our breaks” or “sleep when we’re dead”.

We need to take care of ourselves, but so often we don’t know where to start. The guru’s suggest things like yoga and taking a certain amount of time for yourself every day. That is considered extreme by many in the mindset of, “There aren’t enough hours in the day”.

BUT, there are some simple things you can do that ARE more manageable and can lay the foundation for the more “intricate” teacher self-care techniques.

Try a Mindfulness App When You First Wake Up

I say app, but you can find these on YouTube and other such places. When you first wake up in the morning, you can listen to a brief recording that helps you correctly “set your mind” for the day. Many people report feeling more relaxed and rejuvenated in starting their day. You have short options, like this one:

Or can take it one step further and sign up for Audible (with 2 free books) and try out one of their mindfulness programs (ad):


Create a Schedule and Stick to It:

This is a hard habit to get into, but it moves mountains once you get into the groove. The best way to do this when first starting out is to get an hourly planner, like this one (ad).

You take your due diligence to map out time for everything you need to do. I generally highlight out when I am at work and then schedule everything within (and outside) of that time. If you really find yourself struggling with time, schedule EVERYTHING (meaning, what time you plan to leave to go home, how much time you will allow yourself to work on grades, etc.) and then you STICK to it.

Our biggest struggle when it comes to scheduling is that we don’t stick to the things that will lead to teacher burnout (like::ahem:: leaving on time or only spending a certain amount of time grading). Give yourself deadlines and then make sure you give yourself enough realistic time to meet them.

The first piece of this working is holding yourself to the time you allot…if you need more, schedule more at a different time. The second piece is when someone asks you to take care of something, see when you can schedule it. If you cannot schedule it, then just say no or ask if it can be completed at a different time when you do have more scheduling available.

Make Sure You’re Doing the Basics

This one is so simple, but it’s huge….and it’s one that I know I struggle with. Do you get at least 10,000 steps a day? Drink enough water? Eat whole foods? If you do…fantastic! SO MANY of us let this stuff slide because we have too many other things to worry about.

If you find yourself in this camp, then SCHEDULE yourself the time to make sure you’re taking care of it….pack yourself the appropriate lunch and a large water bottle, like this one (ad). Use your new Audible subscription and listen to a good book as you take a short walk. These are the basic needs of the human body. If you’re not taking care of them, you’re setting yourself up to crumble at the foundation. Put your body first!

These three things may seem so simplistic, but they are the basic tenants of counteracting teacher burnout and leading you down the path of teacher self-care. If you find that you already do these things, or you get into a rhythm of doing them well, then take it further. Check out that book by Herman and Reinke or start an exercise program (or find a way to multitask, like with this seated elliptical trainer (ad)


If you’re doing ALL of these and you’re still finding you’re overwhelmed, remember the mantra Work Smarter, Not Harder. Look at your teaching style….honestly, how much are you putting unnecessarily on yourself? Student-centered learning in and of itself reduces an EXTREME amount of stress (and busywork grading) and your scores that stress you out will improve because it’s differentiating for the needs of each student.

All-in-all, you need to know one thing…when it comes to teacher self-care…

What does it truly mean to be burned out as a teacher?

As Student-Centered World has grown, I have had the opportunity to speak with educators around the globe. It is very clear that the main pain point from all of them, no matter where they are in their teacher journey, is the fear of or onset of teacher burnout.

Given the amount of exhaustion (physical, emotional, and psychological) a teacher undergoes on a daily basis, it is no wonder this is at the forefront of so many educators minds. The 2017 Educator Quality of Work Life Survey, put out by the American Federation of Teachers, alarmingly noted that 61 percent of teachers said their jobs were always or often stressful. Sound familiar?

We decided to explore this and determine ways for the everyday teacher to help beat teacher burnout. While still lacking, there has been some study done to look into this phenomenon and start coming up with improvement plans on a number of different scales (varying from the individual level to a more global perspective).

The question begs to ask, “What does it truly mean to be burned out as a teacher?”

The American Psychological Association’s “Psych Learning Curve” points out a very interesting fact: burnout is actually considered, by all definitive accounts, work-induced depression.

This circles back to my point about talking about mental health, especially when it comes to teachers.

The symptoms of teacher burnout are often the same as those suffering from depression. Some examples of these include:

  • Fatigue
  • Loss of interest in previously enjoyable activities
  • Mood swings
  • Irritability
  • Sense of malaise

This is not an all-encompassing list but certainly helps prove its point.

Knowing that you want the fix is half of that battle. Remembering that an important indicator of depression, and thus teacher burnout, is no longer finding joy in something you once had a passion for. It is hard to rewire our short term thoughts into bringing back that love for teaching, but knowing that you want that is a good first step.

Eliminating it on a scale outside of your own person will only be successful when all stakeholders (teachers, administration, etc.) get to the root of teacher burnout and make overarching adjustments to educational culture.

What can administration do?

Putting safeguards in place and being very open with staff is a good beginning to eliminating the teacher burnout issue within a school. However, if this process is moving forward to remove the school from a negative situation, then more care needs to be placed on teachers already in the system.

With the mental health connotations surrounding teacher burnout, especially with the overlap of depression, counseling should be available if psychological attention is deemed necessary. Helping teachers suffering at this magnitude is vital in helping bring them back from the burnout level they have reached.

This is an excellent way to begin to focus on the importance of mental health and removing the stigma behind it. Too many people try to mask their mental health symptoms for fear of retribution or ostracisation by their co-workers or administration.

This fear needs to become non-existent if we truly want to help our peers. We need to have peer-to-peer opportunities with mental health training and a large scale understanding of what to do if we see someone suffering (even if that person is us).

It is also important to take a macroscopic view of the school culture and determine risk factors for teacher burnout within that particular setting. Stress affects every person differently, but finding triggers in procedures or general ways of being can certainly make a difference if amended appropriately.

male and female sitting on computers

Administrators must also keep teachers at the forefront of decision-making. Having their say in what professional development workshops will be the most helpful, having open collaboration when coming up with campus events, and creating a culture that respects boundaries for life outside of work are just some simple examples that will make teachers feel heard and thus, feel respected.

That respect is far-reaching. Administrative teams need to be open and approachable. The only way they will truly make a difference with their teachers is if they appear to be open to conversation and dialogue about what the root issues are in their schools. Only then will there be a level of trust where changes can be made.

man sitting with laptop, pondering

Those conversations should lead to positive suggestions for what that teacher may need. Perhaps it’s mental health assistance or teaming up with another teacher who is having a similar issue. Maybe it’s an out-of-school event that a particular teacher may find interesting or a YouTube video or someone fantastic to follow on social media.

It is the suggestion of these types of interactions that will make a difference with staff and shift school culture away from the “burnout model”.

Everything ends up focusing on culture and changing a normalized model that too many people have fallen accustomed to. Without making necessary changes that are draining teachers, nothing other than fueling the cycle of teacher burnout will happen moving forward.

If something is broken, it is imperative that it is fixed before the destruction is too much to come back from.

Beating Teacher Burnout…Before it Beats You

Remember back to what probably seems like a lifetime ago. You became a teacher to:

*Make a difference in the lives of students

*Be the person a child can look up to for guidance

*Follow your passion for education

But the changes we are facing every day in policy, procedure, and expectations are making it seem like a pipe dream. The truth is, even if you’re not getting the support you need from your administration, parents, and even students, you can still recapture that “new teacher” energy.

Since starting Student-Centered World, I’ve had the opportunity to talk to teachers from around the globe, from those who were finishing student teaching to the ones preparing for retirement. No matter what country, socioeconomic status, or experience level they are, one concept comes forward unanimously and in almost every conversation.

Teachers are tired.

A profession that used to be held in such high esteem has dropped to being a scapegoat in so many places. Teachers chose to get into teaching to make a difference in the lives of their students, but many feel like they are nothing more than paper pushers in the society that we currently live.

tired woman with crooked glasses reading books in the library

We know that teachers are the ones that mold the future for our incoming generations, but how are we supposed to do our jobs with energy, bravado, and excitement when we know that the next unnecessary and often unfair hurdle is right on the horizon?

Teaching is one of the most stressful career choices out there. A report in The Guardian, “found that one in five [teachers] felt tense about their job most or all of the time, compared with 13% of those in similar occupations.” Age and job experience don’t discriminate with this statistic, either. No one is immune to the effects of stress in teaching.

After talking to many different people and doing much research, I was able to find several contributing factors and connections that may not be in a teacher’s immediate control but have the opportunity to be changed in regards to the outcome based-off some simple changes that a teacher can make.

Group of children wearing colorful wireless headsets while working on digital tablets, the teacher can be seen supervising the students in the classroom

When I left the classroom, it was because I wanted to shift my efforts into helping as many teachers as I could. I wanted to help them reach their full potential in teaching and to stop the debilitating feeling of being overwhelmed and questioning if the classroom was where you were meant to be. Trust me, I’ve been there and it’s not a fun place. Knowing the years of education behind you and the time, money, and effort you put into a career that is making you feel like you are spiraling out of control is not fun.

According to an article from Edutopia, “Teacher stress is high partly because the demands of the job can lead to emotional exhaustion, which arises as teachers try to manage the emotional needs of their students in addition to their academic needs. Not all students come to school ready to learn, and distracted or disruptive students can quickly drain a teacher’s emotional energy.” We have more and more students entering our classrooms year after year who come carrying more emotional baggage than any child should be allowed to have.

Let’s be honest…their emotional baggage leads to ours as well.

tired man rubbing his eyes under his black glasses

This concept isn’t new, unfortunately. When I was doing research on the topic of teacher burnout, I came across a book that was published in 1980. In what could be considered “the good ole days”, there was still a risk of the burnout that many of us are facing today. The argument can easily be made that this book was merely a foreshadowing of what was to come and what we are living with now.

Coupled with the emotional side of the coin, it is literally not possible for the students we have in our classroom today to learn and comprehend the information on deeper levels if we teach the same way that we taught previous generations. They need to be engaged and have their interest sparked…and yes, it is possible to do this in every subject matter in any grade. It just takes a little elbow grease before you walk into the classroom and keeping a keen eye on what is going on while you’re there. After that, it’s cake …and will meet your expectations for what your classroom should be like on every possible level.

Making Changes for Teacher Mental Health

As teachers, many times the outside influences in our lives certainly have an effect on our psyche and how we speak to ourselves. However, sometimes it’s our inner voices that have a direct effect on our reactions and how we move about our journey. This could be due to the way that we were raised or the self-talk that we have just learned over the years.

There are also things that happen in our personal lives that change our mindset.

Whatever the case, often we are our own worst enemy and this is something that we need to collectively work on because plainly stated when it comes to our teacher mental health, we have to. 

We need to constantly tell ourselves that one cannot control how other people act or react to a situation, but can only control how personal actions or reactions to a situation. 

Teaching isn’t easy and we certainly know in the last few years the landscape of what it means to be an educator has changed dramatically. We aren’t teaching the same students that educators were dealing with 30, 20, even 10 years ago.

We went from having the role of an educator to now a plethora of other helpers to try to meet the needs of each and every student in our classroom. More and more is expected of us, but at no time was asking what WE needed to be able to accomplish all of those things.  The mental health of teachers is too often ignored.

"stopping teacher burnout" with exasperated woman with head down on desk covered in binders and papers

I think most are just attested to the fact that we do, in fact, want to do what we can to help every single one of our students achieve to their greatest abilities, but we can’t be getting dumped on more and more and more without taking a step back to figure out how we could do all of those things in an effective way.

There are a lot of naysayers out there saying things like there are simply not enough hours in the day or “I just don’t have the ability to do all of these things”. While there is some truth in that, that’s the new normal for education. We are caregivers, social workers, parents, life coaches, and anything in-between ALONG with those responsibilities that include teaching our children knowledge.

This isn’t going to change anytime soon.

We can wait for adequate teacher mental health training, or we can start tomorrow with little tweaks WE can make in the classroom to help keep our psyche on the right path.

Join our Mailing List

There are certain things we can do for teacher self-care, but as I said before, we need to change how we react and interact with these situations in our schools. As teachers, we need to be organized…and I’m not talking about having your copies done a day ahead of time. We need to know our students on an individual level to figure out what is going to make him or her tick, what is going to set them off, and what will make sure that they achieve at the greatest possible level.

That level is not going to be the same for every single student, but we need to make sure that we’re lifting up our struggling students as well as challenging our more advanced ones.

This is not easy to do by any means, but it’s the world that we live in and if we can find a way to balance this along with all of our other responsibilities as teachers (being coaches, family members, and everything else), think about how much less stressed, more productive, and more satisfied we will all be…and how improved your teacher mental health will be.

The best change for MY teacher mental health

The greatest change I ever made in the classroom to help alleviate some of the stress was by adopting the student-centered model. As you know, Student-Centered World teaches teachers how to successfully execute that model in the classroom.

When I was able to walk into a room and everything was prepared for my students, I was able to literally speak to every single one of them in a meaningful way during class while I knew every other student was doing what they needed to do to achieve their highest level. This created such a sense of accomplishment and a relaxed feeling on my part in the classroom.

Is every single class perfect? No, of course not.  Are there discipline issues that pop up? Of course, there are…we’re teaching kids, it’s not going to be perfect…but knowing that most of the time it would be and that these interruptions were the exception and not the norm created an entirely different vibe in my room. Even my students would talk about how laid-back my classroom always felt and that they could do better there.

Having this run effectively takes a little extra preparation out of class, but when you’re able to enjoy your craft with your students, it changes everything. No longer will you enter class flustered, wondering if your lecture is going to be received well or in a way that your students understand. No longer do you have that unfortunate surprising moment after an assessment when many students didn’t do well because, of course, nobody had any questions when you asked. 

By making your classroom learner-centered, you will be able to find out one-on-one what students were struggling with and will be able to adapt your class every single day for what they need more of (and in some cases less of). 

boy smiling while laying on swing, reading a book

We know that teaching is a balance between being prepared and also winging it when the tide changes suddenly. Student-centered learning naturally does that and it also naturally differentiates for every single student in your room. What other method of instruction do you know that does that? 

You’ve heard from your administrators before that they want to see more in the hands of the students in your classroom, but that itself becomes extremely stressful when you’re not sure how to do that. You may think that you understand student-led learning, but I know for a fact when I first started I didn’t.

My boss told me to create a student-centered learning environment, but I didn’t know what that meant and there was nothing out there that actually explain how to do it…but I saw the merit in it when I saw how engaged my students became when I gave a little bit of choice and what their activities were going to be, so I stuck with it.

Personally, it took me five years to figure it out, but by the time I really nailed down a system, I had students who constantly we’re coming back into my class tell me how they had gotten more out of my class than any other class.  They would come to me and tell me after they had moved on that they missed my class and that I need to train their new teacher on my method of instruction because it was so amazing for them. Even students who resisted at first because they were very traditional and expected lectures came around once they bought in and saw their classmates buy into it.

Portrait of lovely girl doing sums on transparent board with two schoolmates on background

This takes away the stress of teaching

As I said, not every day is rainbows and butterflies. Sometimes I would come up with an activity for the kids to pick from and they didn’t like it. so it didn’t go so well. I’m going to go out on a limb and say that you’ve tried things before that you didn’t like either.

Our students are human too, and we need to remember that.

It’s not a failure because you tried something and it didn’t work. It just didn’t work. You just have to find something different. Education is a trickle-down effect: how you’re treated by your superior is a direct correlation to how you perform and then treat others.

If your students feel like they’re respected in your classroom and are given some autonomy, watch how your classroom management issues start to disappear.

Change is scary, especially if you’ve been teaching the same way for a long time. One of the biggest backlashes I get from people about why they don’t want to switch to a student-centered classroom is because, “if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it”. While I don’t disagree with that, are you sure it’s not broken? Is every single student in your class achieving at their absolute peak level for them? Are they coming to school, excited to be there, and trying their very best (and taking risks in their learning because of it)? 

It truly only takes a change of mindset to make tweaks to your classroom that make all the difference in the world. 

Keeping a Positive Teacher Mindset and Perspective

As human beings and especially teachers, we have a very strong tendency to get ourselves wrapped up in the ins-and-outs of everyday life. Teachers by nature are nurturers, and we want not only to make sure that we’re doing everything correctly but that we are doing it in the best interest of those we are serving. Sometimes we have a tendency to get ourselves so wrapped up in the little things that we find ourselves in a stressful situation that has completely lost perspective of what really matters and is important.

Don’t get me wrong: the landscape of education is certainly changing and has been for several years now. We have more stress on our plates than we ever had before and we’re not trained in our teaching programs on how to deal with that the most effective way possible and keep a positive teacher mindset.

However, sometimes the universe has a way of smacking you in the head to help you take a step back and have a somewhat “out of body” experience to realize the stress that you’re putting on yourself is not as important as what you have shoved onto the back burner. We discussed previously that most stressors in our lives will not really matter five years into the future. We may even look back upon them and laugh, Of course, this is not the case with every scenario, but so often it is. 

Keeping a Positive Teacher Mindset

So how do we check ourselves when we have lost perspective of what is important. This seems so hard to do, not because it is difficult to execute, but because when we are wrapped up in a situation, it is hard to pull ourselves out of it to see what is going on. Often losing perspective is our way of trying to keep hold of something that is out of our control. We give so much of ourselves into different parts of our lives that often we take the other parts of our lives for granted.

Think about it at the most basic level in our classroom. Sometimes we put so much effort into students that are just under our skin or even under our wings and then the others slip through the cracks because we’re spending too much time on the ones that we think that needed the most. I know as a teacher it is difficult to manage that, but one of the reasons we have trouble is because we lose perspective.

We want so hard to know that we have control and the ability to fix or change or improve or what-have-you, that we lose sight of the bigger picture. We want all of our students to be successful–WE want to be successful–but we get so wrapped up in all of the things that we can’t control or spend too much time focusing on things that just take up too much of our time. We need to break this cycle. 

It seems to be a recurring theme to mention here at Student-Centered World, but we can’t do what we have always done given what we are being given as teachers today any longer. We need to find a way to make sure we keep perspective every single day with what’s going on in the classroom and in our personal lives. We all know that sometimes they overlap just as they do for our students, but we find ways to make it work.

You need to find a way to figure out what works for you as an individual.

Maybe it is having a coworker that you know you can speak with that can help you and you can help them. Maybe it is by using a gratitude journal to kind of help you focus on what is important in your life. Maybe it is really ramping up your self-care just so you have time to decompress so all the little things do not become so monstrous to you. Just like anything else, it is a matter of finding your own avenue to success when it comes to your mental well-being.

Life is going to throw you curveballs…most likely when you can least afford or expect it. We can’t control that. The only thing in this world that you can control is how you react to the hand that you are dealt at any given time. The sooner we find a way to support one another and to support ourselves in this journey, the better we will all be in the long run.

Again, I am not saying that this is going to be easy, but we need to make a conscious effort to try to keep perspective.  This keeps us grounded, keeps us focused, and makes sure that we are on our game all the time.

It is when we lose that positive teacher mindset that we lose our vision and we lose why we are in the classroom doing what we are doing. Not every day is going to be perfect; not even every week or month or school year will be perfect, but if we keep that perspective, we remember why we are playing the game as opposed to why we are just dealt the cards that we have in our hand, it makes all the difference in the world.

Take some time to sit back and remember what is your vision for your classroom, why are you a teacher, and what do you want to achieve? When you figure that out and you keep those visions in the forefront of your mind and keep it the perspective clear, it makes all the difference and it makes you stay on task with what you want to achieve in your career.

Clearing Your Psyche of Teacher Problems

In this day and age, we know we love what we do as teachers, but it’s becoming increasingly more difficult to do it and our teacher problems are real. Teaching is hard. Living life as a teacher in today’s climate is even harder.

If you look at what the life of a teacher, or anyone in education, was like just 10 years ago, the changes are staggering. Though some changes were necessary to propel us into the 21st century, others have been nothing more than a seizing of power to try to make us look like the enemy. We know why we do what we do and where our passions lie, but it’s hard when we are being attacked in some fashion.

It’s hard to go to work with a smile every day when you know that what you’re doing is underappreciated. We start this career path with all the excitement and gusto in the world, and at some point, the wind starts being taken from our sails. It’s not fair and it’s not right, but it is the reality and the reality is that even though the bureaucratic nonsense and teacher problems play on our psyches, we need to find a way to compartmentalize those thoughts and concerns and get back to what we entered the classroom to do…to make a difference in the lives of kids.

The only way we could do that is if we are at a place mentally to do that ourselves. We simply can’t rely on others to help keep us energized. It’s difficult to put one foot in front of the other if we simply don’t want to. The day-to-day motions of teaching are a sprint and it seems like a quick trip of your feet takes eons to recover from. That shouldn’t be. We’re better than that.

happy older man teacher holding stack of books with an apple on top in front of a chalkboard

I think the district that you work in really does make a difference. We all know that the administration is a huge part of how we feel about ourselves on a daily basis. There are some districts where the administration is so wonderful. so encouraging. and so supportive. They want you to try new things and if you make a mistake in the classroom, it’s okay…how can you learn from it? How can you move forward? And you’re not seen as a bad person.

There are other ones where it seems like the administration is out to get you with those “gotcha” moments. Having one set of those administrators over another may or may not be helpful to your day-to-day.

Of course, we want to be supported, but what if the students are very, very difficult to work with? On the flip side, what if the administration is absent but your students are absolutely wonderful? There’s so much that goes into the teaching community and it all needs to sync up, but there’s so much that’s out of our control, creating all these unnecessary teacher problems. So how do we rise above? How do we become the best versions of ourselves? How do we feel that passion for educational progress that we stepped into our first classrooms exploding with?

It’s not necessarily easy, but it is attainable.

We need to take care of ourselves. We are givers, but we give, and give, and give so much that we often forget to take. It is not selfish to take time to unwind, take time to engage with ourselves, take time to just be. 

So as teachers, what do we do to make sure that we are doing the best that we possibly can and we’re keeping ourselves grounded while we’re doing it? How do we alleviate (or at least attempt to tackle) these teacher problems?

Try to pinpoint…what is stressing you out? I know that’s kind of a loaded question and I understand that we have a tendency to look at the big picture, especially as teachers, and say it’s all-of-the-things. It might be all of the things, but you also have to realize that it’s a trickle-down effect and it can also be a domino effect depending on how things are going for you. 

I would suggest getting a piece of paper and just start writing out the thoughts that are in your head. This is an exercise that my 6th-grade chorus teacher taught me. You can set a timer if you would like or you can kind of just go and see where it goes.

You’re going to write down legitimately every single word that pops into your head. You’re not going to stop writing…you’re going to not even pick up the pen. You’re just going to go. Even if you’re thinking something along the lines of, “I have no idea what to write right now”, you’re going to write down, “I have no idea what to write right now”.

It seems weird but as you start going, the thoughts just start flowing onto that paper.

Throughout this exercise, I would like for you to think about what your day today is like in school. What are your specific teacher problems? Think about things that rile you up…think about things that make you happy…think about the stuff that you’ve been procrastinating with or putting off or you can’t wait to get started or that you’re just completely inundated with.

Try to keep your mind focused like that as you’re doing this experience. Your mind might wander onto something else as you do this…it’s okay. Write about that because subconsciously that might be the exact hang-up that you have for why you’re feeling the way that you feel right now.

When I take care of this particular activity myself, I usually do it for about 5 minutes. Sometimes I find myself going over and that’s fine; other times I find myself writing a lot of, “I’m not sure what to write right now”, but in the end, it gets it out of your brain and makes it tangible.

I generally don’t reread it because I’m living it as I’m going through it, so that’s something that you would have to decide. If you want to go back and reread it, or if it’s cleansing enough that you know you have it out now, you can just crumple it up and throw it away. 

The best part about this exercise is it takes all of the disorganization that’s going on in your brain and it put it in a tangible place. It helps you get organized, even without you realizing it, because it takes thoughts that are all jumbled up and spreads them out.

Once you have done this, the best thing that you can do from this point forward (and hopefully you are feeling a little bit more relaxed) is to try to figure out what the key points are there are going to be the central themes that float around.

It could be something simple; it could be that you know you have an observation coming up and it’s really, really rattling you. That’s fine.

It could be something much deeper than that.

There’s an infinite amount of possibilities of what is going to come out on this piece of paper and frankly, you might be able to do it an hour later, and completely different thoughts will come out. There’s nothing wrong with that. That’s the nicest thing about this exercise..it is easy to do and it really does give you that mental clarity to start eliminating some of your most tricky teacher problems. 

Water: A simple fix we can ALL do

Teachers are notorious for not taking care of themselves.

This isn’t necessarily intentional. There is just too much going on during the school day to remember to do all of the things.

And then we get home, and so many of us who intended to exercise or cook a healthy dinner end up throwing that out the window.

This isn’t always the case, and certainly not an everyday experience (let’s give ourselves some credit), but at some point many teachers find themselves getting into some bad habits in the name of putting it all out there for their classrooms.

The number one offender? Water.

It seems so simple, but most teachers do not drink enough water throughout the day.

There can be any number of reasons for this. Time passes without realizing it, you have a no food/drink policy in your school, or maybe you just don’t realize the difference when you drink enough water.

Of course, there’s always the bathroom issue as well (which is what most people have said is their reasoning).

I mean, I get it. I remember my mom asking me, completely baffled once, what you do if you have a bathroom emergency. My answer ranged from “hope there’s someone walking by” to “hold it and hope for the best”. I had a former colleague use the restroom in the middle of class due to a lack of another option and a fight broke out while he was gone. No Bueno.

I want to discuss why we need to change this water mentality because of our health and some options you can look into to try and eliminate the barriers you have now.

Benefits of Water for Teachers

Yesterday I was listening to a podcast and the topic was how to make your morning routine work for you and it got me thinking about this topic.

You are meant to drink half your weight in ounces of water each day. While we grew up hearing 8 8oz. glasses, this is a more individualized approach because every body is different. While you should always discuss any health issues or questions with your physician, this is a decent goal to set and tailors your water intake to you.

There is a great article on Healthline written by Joe Leech, MS titled, “7 Science-Based Health Benefits of Drinking Enough Water“. By scrolling through his data, it is obvious why teachers need to make sure they are hydrated:

  • Maximize Physical Performance
  • Major Effect on Energy Levels and Brain Function
  • Prevent and Treat Headaches
  • Help Relieve Constipation
  • Help Treat Kidney Stones
  • Prevent Hangovers (Maybe not relevant to the classroom, but it helps if you decompress with an adult beverage at night or on the weekends!)
  • Help With Weight Loss

If you have dealt with any of this, especially while in the classroom, you know how much of a game-changer it would be to simply drink more water to alleviate some of those issues.

Drinking more water in the classroom

Now, in my own experience, when I began to drink the proper amount of water (which was drastic…I went from drinking a few cups of coffee and maybe a regular-sized bottle of water a day to half my weight in ounces), my trips to the bathroom increased and I started having some symptoms of electrolyte imbalance.

This isn’t uncommon, but it can be countered.

For starters, when your body adjusts to being used to that water, your trips to the bathroom do regulate. I might suggest starting this process over a weekend so you start to feel your body out.

Woman drinking a glass of water in her kitchen

When in school, I would swap schedules with my co-workers. I had all my team members’ schedules and vice-versa. We would know who we could call if we needed someone to cover for a few minutes while active in the classroom. (If nothing else, that short walk to the restroom could be an excellent opportunity for a quick brain break as well). This could also be a fun way to begin a challenge with co-workers regarding the water you drink in a day. Many places host a “Biggest Loser” competition for weight loss. This could be an interesting venture as well.

If you find yourself starting to have some of the symptoms of electrolyte imbalance, which is especially common if you eat a low-carb diet, you can add some drink enhancements to your water or even some Himalayan pink salt. Both of these can help (another option is drinking some pickle juice if that is more your style!) (ad)


For me, I know one of the reasons I wouldn’t drink enough water was because I couldn’t see it. Once I actively begin drinking water, I often start craving it more and more, but I need to know what I’m working with visually.

When I first started this process (before my body began telling me how much I needed to drink), I bought the bottle of Smart Water below. Since it was clear and an entire liter, I could gauge where I was in the process.

1 liter bottle of SmartWater

You can buy them in bulk on Amazon if you don’t want to reuse them multiple times (ad).


Once you get used to the process (and know where to refill), you may want to invest in a good, sturdy water bottle that can withstand life in your bag. Be mindful of the ounces that it holds and know how many refills you should strive for in a day. (ad)


Another option is writing it down. Here is a great planner insert that has the water level on it so you can keep track of the amount you have guzzled down each day.

"My Day for Me" planner insert

But seriously, our bodies are 70% water. We need to make sure we are giving ourselves what we need to be at peak performance. If we aren’t doing the absolute basics for the foundation of our lives, then we can be sure that teacher burnout and other health issues will be coming our way.

No teacher wants to burn out. No teacher wants to feel defeated. In the climate of so many of our educational institutions, this is much easier to happen than for previous generations of educators. We need to remember why we became teachers and find ways to persevere.

Our students deserve teachers who are able to care for them appropriately because they have already taken care of themselves (go ahead and read that line again). We need to make sure our ability to give is preserved by giving to ourselves first. It’s the only way we’re all going to make it!

Teacher Self-Care and the 4 Keys

It’s no secret that having our students engaged and behaving in the classroom helps our mental health more than we like to talk about. Coming up with plans and strategies to make this the norm, not the exception, isn’t difficult, it just needs to ebb and flow with the students and where they are (physically, mentally, and emotionally). Being flexible is the key to making all of this work. The key is engagement. There are four keys to student engagement that I discuss in my video training challenge that releases twice per year. It is called “Finding Your Student Engagement Formula” and it walks you through those four keys and how to implement them in the classroom.

If you are interested in registering (it’s totally free), visit the Finding Your Student Engagement Formula Challenge registration page and you will be notified the next time the series is available.


Gonzalez, Jennifer. “Why It’s So Hard for Teachers to Take Care of Themselves.” Cult of Pedagogy, 20 Sept. 2018, www.cultofpedagogy.com/teacher-self-care/.

Mahnken, Kevin. “61% Of Teachers Stressed Out, 58% Say Mental Health Is Not Good in New National Survey.” The 74 The Problem With Homework Not Much Evidence on Whether It Works Comments, 21 Oct. 2017, www.the74million.org/61-of-teachers-stressed-out-58-say-mental-health-is-not-good-in-new-national-survey/.

Walker, Tim. “How Many Teachers Are Highly-Stressed? Maybe More Than People Think.” NEA Today, 30 July 2018, neatoday.org/2018/05/11/study-high-teacher-stress-levels/.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *